Relationship Advice

i live with a girl who is my ex-girlfriend , been living with her so long that you could say that we are almost a married couple that have never been married ,……stong words that i dont except, been with her for eight years atleast , in that time ive’ve been on and off with several women and trying to work it out with anyone of them , they see how possive she is and they don t want to be with me any more … so now this has become a pattern for anyother relationship i might have …. to go further would be almost dangerous and hideous for me to think about .. so later on in years to come ,, like as the last two years to be exact.. i have found not one but three to four other women . not all my fault , i turn to them for friendship and trust that i do not have with my ex who is not only suppose to take on the roll of friendship with love but what i give as friendship in return.

Let me explaine …. When you become involved with some one you are some what suppose to have this idea in your mind as well as in theirs , like if you or what you want out of the person , like friendship .. well most relationships start off with just that some begin with love . so they say …. when they start off with love. you still some where in the love have to have a number of things to have the relationship. like trust honor and friendship…and also partnership aswell this and somuch more is the base of the relationship.. you have to believe in the person fully 100%of the time .. then they will believe in you ,,, well for now i will leave you with this a s a thought .

to go back to my story after telling you a boring theory , The four women all say the same thing about me . so i can not go anywhere because i am stuck here living with such a person that i no more can stand to live with anymore. nothing sexuall happens between us anymore , it has not for years . so i find some one who wants to share with me and i tell them things a s a friend in need of a shoulder and then it turns into much more unintended .. all ended up the same way , only now i can not clean up the mess that i made , they all tel l me that it is something about me that they have not seen in anyone else that they have met before or dated and how it is harder to let go of me more then it was to anyone else that they have met before.. i am just an ordinary man in my 30’s so for now that is all , i will continue later. thanks and any advice this far , email me direct.. jim