Relationship Advice

think I understand his and his childrens feelings pretty well. It must be very hard for him being the great daddy that he is and at the same time wanting to satisfy me. And the children must also find it difficult to have a new familymember, I know that they had him before me and that they also feel that I’m in their way. Knowing that his kids go throug the same thing as I do , doesn’t help me at all. It only makes me feel even worse that I’m hurting them and I trie to stay in the background to give them space with him. We don’t have a conflict about this cause I know in my head what is right and what is not, but getting my heart to understand that is hard. If you think listening to your heart and being sensible is a bad thing it’s up to you, but you shouldn’t put other people down for that reason.