Relationship Advice

I think a "joke" cock ring might be a good start. I know folks who are "traditional" and old fashioned might find this difficult to talk about because they might feel that this is a "normal" part of aging. It USED to be that is what doctors told their patients; they were just as uncomfortable speaking on this issue as their patients were asking them questions. No longer; with the advent of Viagra, the topic of erectile dysfunction is out in the open. It is a FREQUENT side effect of diabetes and hypertension and most urologists get questions about this every day. I work in a VA hospital so most of my patients are men. You would be AMAZED at the little old 85 year old guys who want something done about this problem. If they do get the pump (which has to be surgically implanted), they are pleased as punch to tell EVERYONE about this and I almost expect some of them to yank down their pants to show off their "new toy". The sad thing are those that still feel uncomfortable even discussing this topic. It can really cause discomfort in a relationship; it is easy for the woman to feel her man does not love her any more or for a male to feel he is less of a man when all it really is is a "plumbing problem" that can be improved in the vast majority of cases.