Relationship Advice

I think the best thing you could do is to tell him that as of now you cannot be with him because of his drinking..not as friends and not as spouse.. however, also tell him that if he EVER decides to quit the drinking and is sober for 3 months or longer, he can look you up.. then you could be friends… maybe once he’s sober for a couple of years you can build some trust again. It WON’T work if you will tell him that you’ll stick around if he quits drinking, cause he will promise the world to you right now. (I think you know that by now). Give him AT LEAST 3 months of being sober (with proof) before you even start speaking with him again. Like you said, you need that clea break and he needs to decide what’s important in his life..the booze or his relationships. In Love and Light,